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		<title>Facing Fears in Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Dec 2010 07:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The 5 Archetypes of Facing Fears in Business <p></p> <p style="text-align: left;">Are you procrastinating in business? Do you keep coming up against “brick walls” that stop you growing your business? Maybe you are flat out, with your wheels spinning and not making the money you should be. I think we all find ourselves in these [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Are you procrastinating in business? Do you keep coming up against “brick walls” that stop you growing your business? Maybe you are flat out, with your wheels spinning and not making the money you should be. I think we all find ourselves in these situations at times. Very often, the reason this happens is because there is a fear we are holding onto that we are not even aware of. As entrepreneurs, if we don’t deal with this fear and move on, our businesses will never reach the stage they should.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Asking; 7 Ways to Boost Your Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:26:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The Power of Asking; 7 Ways to Boost Your Business by Jack Canfield</p> <p>The gift called “asking” has been around for a long, long time. One of life’s fundamental truths states, “Ask and you shall receive.” Kids are masters at using this gift, but we adults seem to have lost our ability to ask. We [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Power of Asking; 7 Ways to Boost Your              Business</strong><br />
by Jack Canfield</p>
<p><span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"><img src="http://www.jackcanfield.com/files/newsletter_archive/092806_files/boost_business.gif" border="1" alt="Boost Your Business" width="163" height="144" align="right" /></span></span>The gift called              “asking” has been around for a long, long time. One of life’s              fundamental truths states, “Ask and you shall receive.” Kids are              masters at using this gift, but we adults seem to have lost our              ability to ask. We come up with all sorts of excuses and reasons to              avoid any possibility of rejection.</p>
<p><strong>Yet the world responds to those who ask!</strong> If you              are not moving closer to what you want, you probably aren’t doing              enough asking.</p>
<p>Here are seven asking strategies you can implement in your              business (and in life) to boost your results and your bottom line:</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #1: Ask for Information</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>To win potential new clients, you first need to              know what their current challenges are, what they want to accomplish              and how they plan to do it. Only then can you proceed to demonstrate              the advantages of your unique product or service.</p>
<p>Ask questions starting with the words who, why, what, where, when              and how to obtain the information you need. Only when you truly              understand and appreciate a prospect’s needs can you offer a              solution. Once you know what&#8217;s important to them, stay on this topic              and find solutions for them.</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #2: Ask for Business </strong></p>
<p>Here’s an amazing statistic: after giving a complete presentation              about the benefits of their product or service, more than 60 percent              of the time salespeople <strong>never ask for the order!</strong> That’s a bad habit, and one that could ultimately put you out of              business.</p>
<p>Always ask a closing question to secure the business. Don’t              waffle or talk around it—or worse, wait for your prospect to ask              you. No doubt you have heard of many good ways to ask the question,              “Would you like to give it a try?” <strong>The point is, ask. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #3: Ask for Written Endorsements </strong></p>
<p>Well-written, results-oriented testimonials from highly respected              people are powerful for future sales. They solidify the quality of              your product or service and leverage you as a person who has              integrity, is trustworthy and gets the job done on time.</p>
<p>When is the best time to ask? Right after you have provided              excellent service, gone the extra mile to help out, or in any other              way made your customer really happy.</p>
<p>Simply ask if your customer would be willing to give you a              testimonial about the value of your product or service, plus any              other helpful comments.</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #4: Ask for Top-Quality Referrals </strong></p>
<p>Just about everyone in business knows the importance of              referrals. It’s the easiest, least expensive way of ensuring your              growth and success in the marketplace.</p>
<p>Your core clients will gladly give you referrals because you              treat them so well. So why not ask all of them for referrals? It’s a              habit that will dramatically increase your income. Like any other              habit, the more you do it the easier it becomes.</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #5: Ask for More Business </strong></p>
<p>Look for other products or services you can provide your              customers. Devise a system that tells you when your clients will              require more of your products. The simplest way is to ask your              customers when you should contact them to reorder. It’s often easier              to sell your existing clients more than to go looking for new ones.</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #6: Ask to Renegotiate </strong></p>
<p>Regular business activities include negotiation. Many businesses              get stuck because they lack skills in negotiation, yet this is              simply another form of asking that can save a lot of time and money.              Look at your vendors and suppliers and see if there are areas where              you can be saving money. Just ask.</p>
<p>All sorts of contracts can be renegotiated in your personal life,              too, such as changing your mortgage terms and rate, reviewing your              cell phone plan and requesting a policy review with your insurance              agent. As long as you negotiate ethically and in the spirit of              win-win, you can enjoy a lot of flexibility. <strong>Nothing is ever              cast in stone</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>Asking Strategy #7: Ask for Feedback </strong></p>
<p><strong>This is a powerful way to fine-tune your business </strong>that is often overlooked. How do you really know if your              product or service is meeting your customers’ needs? Ask them,              <em>“How are we doing? What can we do to improve our service to              you?</em> <em>Please share what you like or don’t like about our              products.” </em>Set up regular customer surveys that ask good              questions and tough questions.</p>
<p><strong>HOW TO ASK </strong></p>
<p>Some people don’t enjoy the fruits of asking because they don&#8217;t              ask effectively. If you use vague language you will not be clearly              understood. Here are five ways to ensure that your asking gets              results.</p>
<p><strong>Ask Clearly<br />
</strong>Be precise. Think clearly about              your request. Take time to prepare. Use a note pad to pick words              that have the greatest impact. Words are powerful, so choose them              carefully.</p>
<p><strong>Ask with Confidence </strong><br />
People who ask              confidently get more than those who are hesitant and uncertain. When              you’ve figured out what you want to ask for, do it with certainty,              boldness and confidence.</p>
<p><strong>Ask Consistently<br />
</strong>Some people fold after              making one timid request. They quit too soon. Keep asking until you              find the answers. In prospecting there are usually four or five              “no’s” before you get a “yes.” Top producers understand this. When              you find a way to ask that works, keep on asking it.</p>
<p><strong>Ask Creatively </strong><br />
In this age of global              competition, your asking may get lost in the crowd, unheard by the              decision-makers you hope to reach. There is a way around this. If              you want someone’s attention, don’t ask the ordinary way. Use your              creativity to dream up a high-impact presentation.</p>
<p><strong>Ask Sincerely</strong><br />
When you really need help,              people will respond. Sincerity means dropping the image facade and              showing a willingness to be vulnerable. Tell it the way it is, lumps              and all. Don’t worry if your presentation isn’t perfect; ask from              your heart. Keep it simple and people will open up to you.</p>
<p align="right"><strong>© 2008 Jack Canfield</strong></p>
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<p>Terence Kierans <span>CAVB (Certified Australian Virtual Business)<br />
Principal, Cyberspace Virtual Services, Western Australia<br />
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<strong>Use our skills to help you succeed</strong><br />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the words of Monty Python &#8211; now for something entirely different.</p>
<p>This snippet is taken from  a newspaper column written by David J. Pollay journalist and writer back in 2007.</p>
<p>&#8220;One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were<br />
driving in the left lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a<br />
parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his<br />
brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches!</p>
<p>The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, &#8216;Why did you just do that? That idiot almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!&#8217;<br />
This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, &#8216;The Law of the Garbage Truck.&#8217;</p>
<p>He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around<br />
full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.<br />
As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they&#8217;ll dump it on you. Don&#8217;t take it personally.<br />
Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don&#8217;t take their garbage<br />
and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.<br />
The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take<br />
over their day.<br />
Life&#8217;s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so:<br />
Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don&#8217;t.<br />
Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!&#8221;</p>
<p>Terence Kierans <span>CAVB (Certified Australian Virtual Business)<br />
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</em></strong><a href="http://www.avbn.com.au/"><span style="COLOR: #59708c">www.avbn.com.au</span></a> – <strong><em>Australian Virtual Business Network—You Deserve the Best</em></strong><br />
<em>2007 Thomas Leonard International VA of Distinction Award Nominee<br />
Contented Member of ‘A Clayton’s Secretary’</em><br />
<strong>Use our skills to help you succeed</strong><br />
Tel: 61 8 9304 6983 Fax: 61 8 9304 3202 Mobile: 61 414 25 1091 UK Residents: 07092391723</p>
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